I’m new to online dating and feeling a bit overwhelmed by all the options.

[timmy7v]

I’m new to online dating and feeling a bit overwhelmed by all the options. Which dating sites would you suggest starting with, and what makes them good?

 

[paulkf]

If you’re just starting out, apps like Bumble or Hinge are usually a good choice. They’re quite user-friendly and attract people who are generally open to real conversations.

 

[monicaa]

As for me, when I first dipped my toes into online dating, the sheer number of apps honestly threw me off. What helped was starting with platforms that are clear about intent and easy to navigate. I tried a couple of mainstream apps to get a feel for the scene, but I noticed I spent more time decoding profiles than actually connecting. Switching to sites that focus on location and honesty made things calmer and more efficient. Somewhere in the middle of all that, I realized how much smoother things felt when gay chatting was straightforward and expectations were upfront. That’s why niche sites can work well, especially ones centered on local matches and secure profiles, like Gaystryst. Fewer games, less pressure, and more real conversations. My advice is to pick one or two platforms, learn how they work, and give yourself time. Online dating gets less overwhelming once you stop trying everything at once and focus on what fits your pace.