You've found a place you can find chill people. I did my first raid with folks from here and it was a blast. They were very good teachers. But if they start snickering when they tell you to stand somewhere, be very very careful.
I have no idea what you're talking about...
I've been playing Destiny since release, and I'm not terrible- but I have performance anxiety in high stress situations like strikes/raids. I've had some luck finding people that will tolerate me on LFG, but it takes too long to find them. I'm looking to get to know people, and find chill groups to play with on a semi-regular basis. I've only done one raid. Prefer to play with patient people- that don't mind giving instruction.
Hey man, I'm always willing to help if I'm available. I think you'll find that a lot of us here are willing to help, but often it's scheduling that's the biggest hinderances. Pretty much all of us work and have certain times we can play, so it takes a little work to form a group, but once we do become a pretty dependable squad... Most times.
I'm actually trying to form a raid for the Warpriest challenge on ps4 tomorrow night. Let me know if you're interested, I really should make a topic for it tonight.